In the olden days, the Bhutanese followed a system of arranged marriage (negotiated by the parents of the prospective bride and groom), and this still applies today in some parts of the country, especially in rural areas. The belief is that an arranged marriage will last longer and promote a network of peaceful relationships within the community. Today, however, influenced by western culture, love marriages are increasingly common, as the mindset and attitudes towards marriage have changed.
Bhutanese marriage can either be an informal affair or involve complicated ceremonies, depending upon the status of the family. For less well off families, the couple will start living together and declare themselves married, often not even announcing this publicly. There is no dowry in Bhutan. However, in some remote regions of the country, there is a system of giving wine, grains and slaughtered pigs as gifts to the bride’s parents. The people in the south follow the Hindu system of marriage. |